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Why the Mental Side of Sports Matters More Than Ever

  • Writer: Kalis Loyd
    Kalis Loyd
  • Jan 23
  • 4 min read

When people think of athletes, they often think of physical prowess—speed, strength, agility, and endurance. But what many overlook is that so much of what makes an athlete successful happens in their mind. The mental side of sports is not just important—it’s critical. Yet, for far too long, it’s taken a backseat to physical training. And in today’s fast-paced, high-pressure world, that needs to change.

Athletes today face challenges that previous generations couldn’t have imagined: social media comparisons, instant gratification, and an unrelenting pressure to appear perfect both on and off the court. It’s no longer just about performance—it’s about maintaining a curated image while navigating a world that’s constantly watching. Having been through these pressures myself, I know how overwhelming it can feel. And that’s why I’m so passionate about shining a light on mental performance.


The Pressure to Be Perfect

Earlier this year, I received an unexpected call that changed my perspective on what it means to show up mentally prepared. I was cast for one of Sweden’s most-watched TV shows, Mästarnas Mästare—a competition that pits retired sports stars against each other in physical and mental challenges. Growing up, I had watched this show in awe of the legends who competed, never dreaming I’d one day be among them. I was equal parts excited and terrified.


To prepare, I did what I knew best: I threw myself into intense physical training. Every day, I pushed myself through grueling workouts, and honestly, it felt great. For the first time in years, I felt like my old self—motivated, focused, and confident. My ego loved it. But as the days passed, a small voice in the back of my head started whispering: What about everything else?


It hit me that while I was physically strong, I hadn’t spent nearly enough time focusing on my mental resilience. Competing on this show wouldn’t just test my body; it would test my mind. Could I handle the pressure? The competition? The vulnerability of putting myself out there again? The experience was a powerful reminder that mental toughness isn’t about simply “pushing through” or ignoring your fears. It’s about preparing your mind to adapt, to stay calm under pressure, and to trust yourself in the moment.


Why Mental Performance Often Gets Overlooked

From the outside, it’s easy to assume that physical training is the key to athletic success. After all, it’s the most visible part of the process—the hours in the gym, the drills, the sweat. But mental performance is just as critical, and it often goes unnoticed because it’s harder to quantify. You can measure how fast someone runs or how much weight they lift, but how do you measure resilience? Focus? Confidence?


As athletes, we often fall into the trap of thinking that if we train our bodies hard enough, our minds will follow. But I’ve learned that the mind doesn’t work that way. It needs its own training, its own care, and its own tools. Without that foundation, it’s easy to crumble under the weight of pressure, doubt, or setbacks—no matter how strong your body is.


How I Approach Mental Performance Coaching

My experiences as both an athlete and a mentor have shaped how I approach mental performance coaching. I’ve been on both sides of the equation—I’ve been the one struggling with self-doubt and pressure, and I’ve also been the one guiding others through those same challenges. Here’s how I help athletes build mental resilience:


  1. Tools to Navigate PressureWhether it’s the pressure of competition, the weight of expectations, or the scrutiny of social media, I equip athletes with strategies to stay grounded. Mindfulness techniques, visualization exercises, and breathing practices can make a world of difference in high-stakes moments.

  2. Building Confidence Through ActionConfidence isn’t something you wait for—it’s something you build. I work with athletes to identify small, actionable steps they can take to grow their self-belief, whether that’s setting micro-goals or celebrating small wins.

  3. Resilience TrainingLife and sports are full of setbacks. I help athletes reframe failure as feedback and use it as fuel for growth. It’s not about avoiding adversity—it’s about learning how to bounce back stronger.

  4. Balancing Ego and GrowthOne of the biggest challenges I’ve faced personally is reconciling the part of me that wants to excel with the part of me that’s still learning. I guide athletes in embracing both their expertise and their growth mindset, helping them see that being a beginner is a necessary step toward mastery.


Mental Toughness: More Than Just “Pushing Through”

The phrase “mental toughness” often gets thrown around in sports, but I think it’s misunderstood. Mental toughness isn’t about ignoring your fears or emotions; it’s about learning how to navigate them. It’s about staying present under pressure, adapting to the unexpected, and believing in yourself—even when doubt creeps in.


When I think back to preparing for Mästarnas Mästare and mentoring the Swedish U20 women’s national team, I see two sides of the same coin. Both experiences showed me how critical it is to be mentally prepared—not just for competition, but for life. Whether you’re stepping onto a court, a stage, or into a new chapter of your career, the mental tools you bring with you are just as important as your physical ones.


Takeaway

In today’s sports landscape, the mental side of performance matters more than ever. Athletes are juggling unprecedented pressures, from the demands of competition to the scrutiny of social media. But with the right tools and mindset, those pressures can become opportunities for growth.

Mental toughness isn’t about pretending you’re invincible. It’s about building the resilience and mindset to handle whatever comes your way—on and off the court.

 
 
 

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